brian/ Jeannette Hutchings (gtama)
hi brian, well i have to have some surgery next week. i am wishing for you to shine down on me. i know i will be fine but it will help to know you arelooking down on grama. i miss you so much. . sure wish you wre here. well have got to run so will sign off now.
Another 4th of July come and gone without you. The 4th is almost as hard as Christmas time for me because I know how much you enjoyed the holiday. Your last 4th, Wendi and you went to Indiana and got fireworks. You brought Wendi over to the house, had dinner with us and let them off in the back field. I will never forget that day, you were so happy, laughing, joking and blowing sh** up (as you like to say).
Every day is hard without you, but some more than others. I miss your laugh so much. I miss everything about you. You are always in my thoughts. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and miss you.
Can you see the fireworks up there? Does the sky light up for you too? I hope you enjoyed your favorite holiday.
missing you / Melissa Hutchings (cousin)
You know this time of year is hard on me. We lost both you and my mom around this time. I will never forget that day when my dad called and told me the news. I was at my friends house. We had been partying all weekend. The guilt I always felt that I was having such a good time while you were suffering. Reading your site only makes me cry so i had to stop. I remember the last family reunion we were both at. That night all of us went to the bar. You were always so quiet, but that night you were just full of it. You were laughing and joking. You an i were sitting there together talking. I remember it plain as day. I even teased you about comming out of your shell as everyone had done that day. I'm glad we got that moment together. After you guys moved we werent close anymore and now i regret that. Anyways shine down on your mom, dad and brothers. We look at our time here on earth as forever, but when you have forever in heaven here on earth seems like a heartbeat. So soon enough we will all be together! Close
Today is my birthday. Jay and Matt have been teasing me all week about getting old! If you were here you would be joing them in that. You boys always did love to tease your old mom. I miss your teasing and picking at me, if you can believe that! Who knew I would miss that! I know though it was all done with love and in fun, that is why I always let you guys get away with it. :o)
We are going out to dinner tonight for my birthday, Dad, Jay, Matt and me. You will be so missed as you always are. Family dinners, outings, birthdays, holidays, all those things just make me miss you even more.
I think I miss you more this time of year than any other. I miss you all the time, but spring & summer (as far as seasons go) are the times I miss you most. I see that bright yellow sun and beautiful blue skies and I think of you. I know how much you loved this time of year. It is so sad that you are not here to enjoy it.
Grandmpa H took you some new flowers the other day. He said you need some bright pretty flowers because the ones you had he could not see from the road. I am hoping to get out to visit you on Sunday and I will bring you some more flowers. I am having some teeth pulled tomorrow though, so I may not be feeling up to doing to much.
I am having the teeth pulled so that they can now adjust my braces to start moving my teeth back. I wish you could see them. They aren't crooked anymore, but now I look like a beaver! They had to push them so far out to get them even withe eye teeth that I now have an over bite! That is the reason for having the teeth pulled. I really miss sharing this experience with you. You had been through it so you know all about the pain!
I have to go for now. I love you son. I miss you every day.
On this sad memorial date...... / Your Mom Read >>
On this sad memorial date...... / Your Mom
My dear sweet son,
How could it be two years? Two years ago on this very day you went away from us. You seem so far away at times and at other times I feel you close by me. All I really know for sure is how very much I miss you.
So much has happend since you left. Your cousin Brady left us 8 months after you. Then your Aunt Gena left us thirteen months after you. My cousin Rhonda went to join all of you shortly after Gena left. Then just recently my Uncle Beaver came to join all of you. How very sad it is here without all of you here, but I am glad you have family with you that loves you. I would rather you all be here though with the families that love and miss you so.
I can not help, but ask myself every day "why?" Why did this happen to you? What should I have done to help you? Would could I have done different as your mom? I was supposed to protect you from the world, but I couldn't. I guess the power was never mine to start with. You know if I could have, I would have moved the hevean's and earth to save you. I would have died for you, but it was out of my hands. I am so sorry baby. I never wanted you or your brothers to have one moment of pain in your lives, but we live in a world that along with having beatutiful and wonderful things and people, also has dark, scary and evil people. You were just too sensitive for such a place.
I can only hope that you are now in a beautiful place filled with beautiful things and very loving people who would never hurt anyone. I never want you to feel an once of pain again.
Save a place for me baby. Some day I we will be together again and on that day I will hug you and never let you go. I will tell you how much I have missed you and how even death did not take away my love for you. Death may have taken you from my sigh, but it has not taken you from my heart or my memory and it can not take away our relationship as mother and son. You will forever be my son and I will forever be your mom.
I had a memorial put in the paper for you today. I lit a candle for you as soon as I got up this morning and later I will release a balloon, so watch for that sweetie.
There is so much more I want to say to you, but my heart is heavy today and the words seemed to be trapped in the pain. Just know that I love you and I always will.
When I look to the heavens at night I will see you shining bright as you always did. Keep shinging bright and let your light guide us through the rest of journey here on earth.
Dear Brian...I cannot believe it has been 2 yrs. since you left our family. I am sure it seems like an eternity to your Mom, Dad, & brothers. They all miss u very much still. I wish I could wave a magic wand to have you back, but we all know that will not happen. So, Brian, you need to give your Mom a sign everyday to let her know you are here with her. Comfort her in any way you can, & Dad too. Can you do that for them, Brian?
brian/ Jeannette Hutchings (grama)
hi brian well as i was saying to brady the reason i have not wrote to youis because i have been really sick my self. i was in the hospital a month. i just came home last week. i had phenoma and other things.i was really scared. well are you having fun with uncle beaver.this is not a good weekend. sure wish you were all here.went to your grave yesterday. well brian i only wish you were here. i will sign off now and talk again soon.
We miss our boys so much. Once such bright lights now extingushed. My heart is with you and your family. I just cried looking at the pictures of your beautiful son. Your thoughts so much like mine and his personality so much like my Michael's.
I am so sorry for you loss / Melanie McGrath
Your story breaks my heart, I can feel the love you had for him! He was so beautiful and sweet, his goodness shines in his picture, I am truly sorry for your loss, but you know,my 15 year old son (the comic), Andy is probably going to keep him laughing until we all can be with them again! GOD BLESS YOU ALL, PEACE BE WITH YOU! HUGS and prayers,& love from above!!!!! Melanie McGrath Andy's PROUD mom andygausepohl.memory-of.com 11-22-1990 -01-18-2006 Close
Thinking of you dear Cheri xo / Jane Einarson Matthew's Mom (I care~angel Mom friend )Read >>
Thinking of you dear Cheri xo / Jane Einarson Matthew's Mom (I care~angel Mom friend ) Close
Mothers day poem / Mom
God Bless The Grieving Mother by Laura, at Heavenly Lights Children Memorial
God bless the grieving mother ... In January as the snow falls ... And a new year dawns ... For her memories will comfort her ... Through winter, spring, summer and fall. God bless the grieving mother ... In February during the month of love ... She sends her hugs on the wings of a dove ... And her kisses are blown to the moon above. God bless the grieving mother ... In March on St. Patrick's Day ... A beautiful rainbow ... symbol of hope ... Which colors her world...in a magical way. God bless the grieving mother ... On Easter in April as she stops to pray ... Thanking God for the gift of everlasting life ... Knowing she will be united one day. God bless the grieving mother ... On Mother's Day and through the month of May... Whose memories are like threads of gold... For they will never tarnish...or go away. God bless the grieving mother... In June as her tears fall like the rain... Please comfort her...give her strength and peaceful days to help ease the pain. God bless the grieving mother ... In July as the fireworks light up the sky afar ... Just like her memories light up her heart ... And she wishes upon an evening star. God bless the grieving mother ... In August...as the sun shines through ... Whose life moves on...through ups and downs ... Whose heart is so tender and true. God bless the grieving mother ... In September as the leaves turn and fall ... Her child's life forever etched in her heart ... Her child's name entered on a memorial wall. God bless the grieving mother ... In October...with the harvest colors all around. Please guide her on her journey of grief ... and keep her safe and sound. God bless the grieving mother... In November...a time to give thanks and pray. Who is so thankful for each precious memory But wishes with all her heart ... just one more. God bless the grieving mother ... In December as Christmas nears ... Please bless her with the gift of peace ... And many great friends to help dry the tears. God bless each grieving mother ... Each day throughout the year... As seasons come and go... And time unfolds... Day by day... Month by month... Year by year ... and especially today ... on this Mother's day Close
I thought of you....... / Mom
I saw the sun when I awoke, I thought of you. I saw a flower starting to peak it's head up from the early spring soil, I thought of you. I saw the buds on the trees, I thought of you. I got a whif of freshly cut grass, I thought of you. Spring time is here, your favorite time of year, and it always makes me think of you.
Grandma Hutchings has been sick for sometime now and that is why she hasn't been here to talk to you in a while. Please ask the man upstairs to watch over her for me. Will you be here garudian angel and watchover her too for me?
I love you son. I miss you every day. I think of the happy memories more now and I smile, but the tears still flow because every memory just makes me miss you more.
Just know Brian that you are never far from my thoughts and you are always in my heart.
Beaver/ Maryln Burrows (great aunt )
Hi Brian, As you know you have another relative with you. Please give my little brother a hug for me. I will miss him very much. And you keep those angels coming down for your family. You are so missed so much also. Love Aunt Maryln Close
Some days are harder than others...and today is one of them. Maybe it's just the spring air, maybe you're visiting our shoulders today....but you're on my mind...bringing tears to my eyes. I always know that your mom will write something on holidays, so i stopped in to see what she had to say. Over and over again I've seen your plate layed out...but just thinking about it hurts more today for some reason. I really wish it didn't have to be this way....i wish you could just come back to us!
Well, mostly i just wanted to stop in and tell you that i miss you dearly! I hope you're dancing with angels today, if you have time...send us one :-) Love you Close
Happy Easter / Mom &. Dad (Parents)
Happy Easter son. Holiday's are so hard without you. We miss you so much. There will be a place set at the counter for you today, your spot, and a candle burning in your honor. Hope you are dancing and singing with the angels today.
All Our Love Forever and Ever, Mom, Dad, Jason & Matt Close
What a handsome young man your son was.I am so sorry we have to go through this.Maybe your and my son are friends in heaven.Your son reminds me of mine. He looked like he loved life.We will see them in heaven.God Bless You and Your Family. You can see my son at aaronharvey.virtual-memorials.com
Last year we had a party to remember you on your birthday, but this year I just wasn't up for that. We went out to visit you the Sunday before your birthday and I put a tile I had made for you on your marker. It has your picture on it and it is beautiful.
I took your birthday off from work, I knew it would be too hard to try to go to work. Wendi came over and Matt & Jay were home. We had a storm the night before and lost our electric and cable. The weather always was crazy on your birthday. Last year we had a ton of snow, this year a thunderstorm!
Matt made us all breakfast that morning. The power was back on, but the cable and internet were still out. We watched a movie and then went to the mall. Then we ended up at one of your favorite places, Best Buy. After that we met up with dad and went to Damon's for dinner. I asked your brothers and Wendi where they thought you would like to go and the all agreed on Damon's.
After dinner we came back to the house and had chocolate brithday cake and chocolate ice cream. Your favorite.
I bought a "Birthday Cake" candle and burned it in your honor for the day. It made the whole house smell like cake!
We missed celebrating with you so much! I missed making the birthday dinner of your choice, watching you blow out the candles on your cake and then piling a plate full of cake and ice cream.
Twenty-five, you would have been twenty-five. Would have been, boy that is so hard to say, "would have been". Instead you are now forever twenty-three.
We remembered you and tried to honor you the best we could. We will always remember you and honor you. We all love and miss you so very much.
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